The beauty of life, and human beings, is that we are adaptable. We adapt constantly. We shed and we adjust. Some changes are drastic, others are gradual- like a child leaving for school in Raj Nagar, but whether drastic or gradual, there is a need to learn how to adapt to life’s changes. No matter how sure you are of things, no matter what your signs read, be ready for a change.
Things never remain the same. To live a fruitful life, be like water, ready to flow in every situation. The world today is filled with angry, lonely, scared, distrustful, suspicious, arrogant and snobbish people who you may think have a rein on life but are pursued by their past. Real adaptation is not losing you, no matter what changes. The ability to adapt is a skill. Learn it.
There are some losses that can leave holes in our lives, voids that could never be filled — but when we learn to accept that life is full of loss, we can expect it and let go of the idea that we can control it or prevent it. To handle changes in your life, you need to accept what is beyond your control and focus on your own internal transition to the new reality. Remember that feeling fear about change does not mean that change is bad — what seems frightening at first may well turn out to be for the best.The ability to adapt is a skill. Learn it.
- Recognize that changes will always happen…..so be ready always.
- Expect internal resistance to change,some changes will be a challenge.
- Analyze the situation and develop coping strategies that are best suited to deal with the circumstances.
Accepting a major life change takes time, so be patient and don’t be too hard on yourself. So welcome every change in life as the key to success is often the ability to adapt.
~ Neha Shrivastava
